Top 10 LIST (Part 2)

For anyone who's in a relationship, this list is very useful. Read on:

THINGS NEVER TO SAY TO A MAN

1. "You're just like your father."
2. "You're just like my ex-boyfriend."
3. "What are you thinking?
4. "You just relax, sweetie, and let me take care of everything."
5. "I'll just relax and let you take care of everything."
6. "You're not listening to me."
7. "All of my friends think you're wrong."
8. "All of my friends think you're wrong for me."
9. "Is this as fast as your car can go?"
10. "I dare you."

THINGS NEVER TO SAY TO A WOMAN

1. "You're just like your mother."
2. "But my last girlfriend liked doing that."
3. "Do the dishes? But I took out the garbage!"
4. "I'm just not very good at cleaning toilets."
5. "Tell her I'm not here."
6. "How do I feel?How do you want me to feel?"
7. "Is that what you're wearing?"
8. "I think it would be good for you to date other people."
9. "I think women should be equal but...."
10. "Yes, but it didn't mean anything."

Top 10 List (Part 1)

Through the years, I have compiled a collection of top lists, mostly about relationships and love. Some are not complete yet, my target is to make each list the Top 10 List so if you want to add something to the list, please feel free. Here's the first one:

Theories Why Love Doesn't Last

1. "In a relationship, three is a crowd."
2. "The success of love is inversely proportional to the expectations you have, and directly proportional to the effort you make."
3. "The greater the amount of pain, the more intense your love is."
4. ''The faster love accelerates, the more likely to lose control."
5. "Love heats up to 100 degrees and freezes at 0 degree."
6. "You will never know love until you actually surrender to it."
7. "You never actually stop loving someone, you can only love more."
8. "Love doesn't work out in a pretend world where perfect love is."
9. "Love is an epic battle between the heart and mind."
10. "Being afraid of getting hurt leaves you with nothing."

TOP LIST (Part 3)

Hi mommies, if your daughters are in their pre-teen years or probably they're in that awkward stage of "too old for toys but too young for boys", they might start asking you how would you know if you are in-love? It's a common question that not only young girls ask but also grown-up women. Sometimes it can be really confusing, if it's real love or just an infatuation. I have asked the exact same question when I was younger... really younger. So before your children caught you off-guard with this kind of question, here's a list that you could explain to them to help them understand their feelings. This applies to boys as well. I read this from the book, I LOVE YOU by Gordon Martinborough.

1. Infatuation is ruled by feelings but love's feelings are ruled by principle.
2. Infatuation is blind, but love sees and examines.
3. Infatuation is in a hurry, but love takes time.
4. Infatuation is obsessed with externals but love is concerned with internals.
5. Infatuation is childish but love is mature.
6. Infatuation is a human ditch but love is a human ladder.

There's only 6 in the list, help me add more...thanks!